Where Bloggers Live: Winter’s Hidden Charms: My Five Favorite Things about Winter


Welcome! “Where Bloggers Live” started out kind of like HGTV’s “Celebrities at Home,” but…with bloggers! We all like to peek behind the scenes and see inside people’s homes, interests, and lives, so every month this wonderful family of amazing women shares their work-spaces, homes, towns, and thoughts, with posts based on specific prompts. It’s been so interesting over the years to see the different ways each of us interpret the topics.
First, can we just take a moment to appreciate our new graphic?? Our own talented Em from Dust and Doghair created it for us. She was so clever to show, quite literally, “where bloggers live” on the world map! But…I look so lonely, all the way over there (in Thailand) all by myself. Oh, poor me 🙂
Back to it…
I feel like I’m in the minority when I say I Love Winter. I realize some people have to be out in freezing cold temps for hours and hours…or don’t have have proper cold weather clothing, or having a long outdoor commute to work, etc…and winter is uncomfortable and a pain.
But I am (knock on wood) fortunate enough to not be tortured by winter. And I can really just enjoy its benefits…and then go inside when I get cold!
And I’m writing this on January 5, from sunny Thailand, where the daytime temps are in the mid-80s and at night it only goes down to about 65. So I’m not getting any winter at all this year!
But my five favorite things about winter are:
Snow

Oh, how I love the snow! And living most of my life in New York I hear all the whiners people with their “but it just turns brown and disgusting,” and “but shoveling is back-breaking” complaints. They are not wrong. HOWEVER, in the beginning, for a few brief shining moments, it is MAGICAL. And that is the part I love. Seeing the first flakes fall, always an event. If you’re at school, or work, everyone feels obligated to dash to the window to ooh and ahh…even though this is a sight they’ve seen dozens if not hundreds of times in their life. It is special Every Single Time.
When the snow falls it’s like the world slows down. Sounds are muffled. Everything ugly or dirty gets a sparkling frosting of white.

Life literally does slow down, if not stops. School is canceled, meetings get pushed back, shops stay closed. People drive slower.
Henry James was wrong…the two most beautiful words in the English language are not “summer afternoon,” but “snow day.” There is nothing better than waking up to your annoying alarm reminding you to go to work or school…then getting the call from The Powers That Be that it is a SNOW DAY. Go back to sleep, my little friend…burrow back under your warm covers…get up later and have hot cocoa while you watch the snow fall. You have no obligations today…it’s a Snow Day.
Yeah, eventually you’re gonna have to shovel…and it will turn grey and gross…but those are a small price to pay for turning the world into a winter wonderland and absolving you of your daily mundane tasks…for just a moment.
Early Nights

Another characteristic of winter I think many people do not like, but I love is…early sunset, early dark. When the sky is almost dark by the time I get home from work, I have no choice but to put on my nightgown, heat up some soup, and curl up on the sofa with a blanket and a kdrama…by like 5:30pm. Work? Study? Vaccuum?? No. It’s NIGHTTIME.
Winter’s long nights are the perfect time to hibernate. We all need a break. Bears go in their dens, plants go dormant underground..we also need a break. A chance to rest, refresh, recharge for the new year ahead. From Christmas til almost March is my hibernation period. I’m resting. Don’t bother me.
No Sweating

I am a sweater. “One who sweats,” not “a knitted or crocheted garment worn for warmth.” I have a very low sweat bar. If it’s above 50 degrees and I am moving…I am sweating. And I hate sweating. I’m a face and head sweater. Meaning, y face is dripping, my hair is soaked, my bangs are floopy-doopying instead of swooping gracefully across my (sweaty) brow. My clothing is soaked. Shirt, bra, underwear. If it’s against my skin, it’s WET. If I’m wearing anything other than the blackest black, I have wet spots showing. If I sit in the car, I leave the seat wet.
It. Is. Not. Fun.
Winter is the only time all year I can move…and not sweat. And even that is not a firm rule. If I’m wearing many layers to keep me warm while outside…and I’m moving…I’m sweating under them.
While I was going to school in Korea, they were the coldest winters I’ve ever experienced. And I walked almost half a mile to class. You had to layer up or you’d freeze in the face of the Siberian winds blowing down from the north. But when I got to class, and pulled off several outer layers…I was The Only One Sweating. Sigh. Seven degrees outside and I’m sweating.
But I sweat a lot less in the winter.
Contrast of Seasons

“What good is the warmth of summer, without the cold of winter to give it sweetness” ~ John Steinbeck
I do love winter. I also love spring…and fall…and summer. I love them all for their contrast to one another. If the winter were not as long and dark and cold, would I appreciate the coming of spring as much as I do?
John said it better than I can, but you know what I mean 🙂
Layering Clothing

I do love layering different colors and patterns and textures. But in the warmer months (March-December) I just Can Not. Put one piece of clothing over another? Are you out of your MIND?? What do people say all winter: “layer your clothing, the layers trap heat.” Trap Heat are the two ugliest words in the English language!
But in the cold of winter? I am free to build layer upon layer…sometimes even a third layer! These outfits are so much more visually interesting to me. My summer wardrobe is a little dull. But fall/winter?? Plaids atop stripes atop florals with a side of leopard! Whee!
I do love winter. I could probably have come up with TEN favorite things…like the year-end holidays…and twinkle lights…no mosquitoes! But…I’ll stop here so you can go visit my friends’ posts and see their favorite winter features.
Daenel at Living Outside the Stacks
Em at Dust and Doghair
Jodie at Jodie’s Touch of Style
Sally at Within a World of My Own
Leslie Once Upon a Time Happily Ever After <- and a special cameo appearance from Leslie!




Lisa Elliott
I, too, sweat so I hear you! I sometimes think I sweat more in the winter and I detest long sleeves and winter clothes . . .because of sweating!! I guess it is good that I live in Alabama. Our winters are fairly short and somewhat milder than other locations.
bettyewp
I wonder what it is – why some people are built to sweat more than others. And isn’t there a pill for that??
jodie filogomo
I understand and appreciate your loves of winter even though I am the exact opposite.
I remember seeing that magical glitter of snow when we had to be up at the crack of dawn to get to the office…sure, it was pretty, and I”m glad I experienced it. Do I miss it? I bet you know the answer to that, LOL
SO Glad your post came up…technology can be so frustrating,
XOOX
Jodie
bettyewp
Sheesh, it was so ridiculous! Whenn it (my post) looked like it was finally all THERE, I hit “publish” quick as a bunny (hee hee Sally) without even proofreading one last time or previewing. Ugh.
Marsha Banks
You aren’t the only one who loves snow, early sunsets, and those three wonderful words…school is cancelled! In fact, I just wrote a post about how much I love snow! And, while I don’t sweat quite as much as you, I am definitely a sweater. I would be a puddle of Marsha on the ground in Thailand!
https://marshainthemiddle.com/
bettyewp
It’s actually really pleasant in northern Thailand right now. I expected it be warmer, and I’m pleased it’s not. Like right now at 3pm it’s 78 degrees…and will be in the 60s this evening after dark. LOVELY. Makes you want to be outside!
Puddle of Marsha, ha ha ha ew.
Leslie Susan Clingan
Beautiful post. Of course, your images of snow and winter would be so very special. I really like the one with the bowl of soup, the bottled beverage and the bokeh-ed lights in the background. You have such a terrific eye. You need to put together the ultimate coffee table book of beautiful images.
Until I read your post and Em’s, I had forgotten how magical it was to hear the radio announcer say school was cancelled. Or to sit in front the of the TV watching the banner scrolling along the bottom of the screen with the names of the schools and districts that had cancelled. I don’t know if I appreciated more as a child or an adult working in a public school!
I am always cold in contrast to your being a sweater. Even in our very hot, dry summers, I shiver with the AC. I am probably as miserable being cold and you can be when you are so hot.
Enjoying your photos on IG. Looking forward to following your adventures in this new year.
bettyewp
My ramen & soju nights in front of a k-drama, lit by Christmas tree, were some of my favorites,
re snow days: I mean when else does your boss ever just call you up and say “don’t come in to work today! have fun! see ya tomorrow!”
More adventures to come!
Leslie Susan Clingan
P.S. thank you for the sweet mention. Love the idea of a cameo appearance. Glad to be back with you gals.
bettyewp
I’m glad you were able to join us! How is the new Blogger blog working for you?
Em D
Yay, you found all your missing words! And am I glad you did…I could relate to so much in your post! I never thought about how much I enjoy early pajamas. My family conplains SO much about the dark..but it sure is comfy!
My own personal thermometer has changed and I am now the one who kicks off the covers at night. I definintely “glisten” a lot more than I used to, but I used to be freezing from August to July…and now, not so much. All in all, it’s a fairly nice change.
I generally appreciate the finer points of winter, but if Lake Erie is frozen, it’s like a cold dome over our area that keeps spring temps at bay. Seems like it takes spring forEVer to arrive, and it doesn’t last tong. BUT, when the lake IS frozen, we stop having Lake Effect snow… Always a yin to the yang.
As always, beautiful photos to accompany your writing! While reading your paragraph about the contrast of seasons, I was wagering that somewhere you must have one of daffodils in the snow.
bettyewp
I actually don’t think I have any daffodils in the snow. I have – I don’t remember if they were crocus or grape hyacinth in the snow (and I’m not even certain there’s snow…and I have daffodils in vases over the years.
And my missing words…I spent another 3.5 hours last night getting my week in review blog to post…trying it myself, trying with the help of chat gpt, trying with wordpress tech support. After all that, the words are back…but it is still verrrrry slow…and the dashboard just seems different somehow, I can’t quite put my finger on it. But it’s better than looking at a blank page where you KNOW you wrote 3,000 ords!!!
Sally in St Paul
12 Minnesota winters and counting…and I still love it when a fresh layer of snow falls and makes everything soft and sparkly looking. My sister trained as a dancer and spent a couple years doing it professionally, and she says that dancers – especially ballerinas – are the sweatiest people in the world! She said that her teacher says that when you start training, your body learns to start sweating immediately for the evaporative cooling. So you, and I, and the other sweat-ers of the world just had a head start on becoming professional ballerinas, we just didn’t know 😀
bettyewp
Yes. And “training.” I’m “training.”