Where Bloggers Live: If I Could Donate $100,000 to Any Charity, Which Would It Be and Why?

Welcome! “Where Bloggers Live” started out kind of like HGTV’s “Celebrities at Home,” but…with bloggers! We all like to peek behind the scenes and see inside people’s homes, interests, and lives, so every month this wonderful family of amazing women shares their work-spaces, homes, towns, and thoughts, with posts based on specific prompts. It’s been so interesting over the years to see the different ways each of us interpret the topics.
This moth’s prompt is: If I Could Donate $100,000 to Any Charity, Which Would It Be and Why?
I don’t fantasize about windfalls (much). I pinch pennies, and calculate airfare and monthly rent.
But I do have causes that matter deeply to me. When I can, I send $10 here, $25 there.
After watching my sister and our family struggle for ten years with her early-onset dementia, that issue became painfully personal. I witnessed her slow decline. I saw her withdraw from life. Her personality shifted from ever-gentle, kind Snow White to – hate to say it – something closer to the evil stepmother. Ouch.
That change made everything harder for the people caring for her…especially my brother-in-law, who carried the weight 24/7 right up until the end. I often think about what $100,000 might have meant during those years. Professional care. Someone who could have coaxed her outside for some fesh air or a change of scenery. Someone to relieve my brother-in-law so he could rest, breathe, live a little.
Research matters, of course. But if that money could ease the daily reality for families in the thick of it? I would happily write that check.
Another cause close to my heart – shocker – is animals.
If I had that kind of money, I would direct it toward rescuing horses caught in the slaughter pipeline. It’s only in recent years that I’ve understood how common this is; how many horses end up in kill pens at auction. These aren’t animals bred for meat. They’re sport horses, race horses, babies, even stolen horses. Some are lame or injured and no longer “earning their keep” for owners they’ve served faithfully all their lies.
Many people believe slaughterhouses have closed in the U.S. Technically true. The workaround is that horses are simply shipped to Canada or Mexico instead.
Horses are so needlessly good. They cooperate with our demands. They work for us. And then too many of them end up crammed into overcrowded trailers, standing nose to tail in dark pens, awaiting their cruel fate.
I would love to fund a rehabilitation program – land, veterinary care, staff – where injured and old horses are treated, made comfortable, and allowed to live out their years in peaceful retirement on a grassy hillside.
Both choices come down to the same thing: easing suffering when it’s hardest to bear.
I don’t have $100,000. But if I did, I know exactly where it would go.
Please visit my friends’ blogs to see where their philanthropic hearts lie.
Daenel at Living Outside the Stacks
Em at Dust and Doghair
Jodie at Jodie’s Touch of Style
Sally at Within a World of My Own
Leslie Once Upon a Time Happily Ever After <- I’m waiting with bated breath to see if Leslie joins us this month!




Em D
Honestly, I could picture you and your beautiful horse sanctuary. A lovely vision for animals who deserved better.
And of course, your sister. Macro or micro was definitely one of the challenges of this post. Cure Alzheimer’s and you change your sister’s (and a plurality of my family’s) outcome. But day to day relief for suffering family members/caregivers? Not to be ignored for a potentially bigger picture from which they would never benefit. Tough questions. Thoughtful answers.
Excellent topic!
bettyewp
Ideally we could cure all the world’s ills…sadly though…
It’s hard to narrow your charity efforts down to just one cause…
Sally in St Paul
Both of these are truly great causes, Bettye! While few of us can truly donate $100,000, I do think that every bit helps!
Leslie Susan Clingan
Oh, horses. This is a new cause to me. Had no idea these poor babies were sent to slaughterhouses out of the country when they are no longer of use to MAN. Heartbreaking. People are the worst. Not all people, but lots of them. Animals have a very special place in my heart so this is a cause I would like to support when I have an extra couple of dollars.
I am not clear on the difference between dementia and Alzheimer’s. Well, maybe I am. Do we all get some level of dementia as we grow older? But Alzheimer’s is a disease? I am so sorry your sister and your family had to deal with dementia first hand. More research in this important area would benefit so many.
I hope that through our posts, maybe readers will be introduced to some new-to-them charities. And we can help do a little bit of good. Typing this with my kitty between me and the laptop keyboard!! I love animals, too.
Debbie@debbiestyleslife.com
I, too, have had family members deal with dementia and it is such a cruel disease. I’m sorry your sister and family had to suffer through it. Horses are such beautiful animals. A friend goes to equine therapy and it is absolutely amazing how the horses respond to my friend. So beautiful! Great post. Is Iris not participating anymore? I haven’t heard anything from her in awhile and wonder if she is okay.
bettyewp
Oh, Debbie…I’m sorry to have to let you know that Iris passed away last October. I shared it in a couple blog posts back then
https://fashionschlub.com/2025/10/21/life-this-week-in-san-antonio-texas-oct-13-19-2025/ – but mostly this one https://fashionschlub.com/wp-admin/post.php?post=26770&action=edit . We all really feel Iris’ absence 🙁
xoxo
jodie filogomo
Its always easier to give when it helps those that you know have been affected.
The horses? I had no idea
Xoox
Jodie