Life This Week in South Korea: December 30, 2024-January 5, 2025
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Mon, Dec 30
Korea is certainly having its share of issues – this time, the terrible tragedy of the airplane crashing and killing over 170 people. Those poor families 🙁
The (3rd) president (in the past month) declared a period of mourning in Korea through January 4. New Year’s celebrations have been cancelled or significantly down-sized. End-of-year award shows have been cancelled. I think this is only the 3rd time that Korea has ever called for a period of national mourning.
Also, President Jimmy Carter passed away, but y’all probably already heard that. I don’t honestly know about his politics (I was still living under a rock) but he always seemed like a good man.
In other news, it was a very mild day and I went for a walk.
Tuesday, Dec 31
School. New Year’s Eve. Didn’t go out, just stayed home, quiet. Gave myself the evening off from studying.
Wed, Jan 1, 2025
It’s here! It’s here! 2025 is here!
Wow.
Spent the morning working on some things I’m…well, working on, ha ha. It’s all part of my New Year’s Resolution(s), but that’s for an upcoming post so the 2025 cat has to stay in the bag for now.
I did get out of the house and took about a 30-minute bus ride to get hotteok which is YUM. Fried doughy pancake filled with cinnamon and honey and seeds and nuts. You get them fresh out of the fryer, so hot you burn your tongue and are uncomfortable for days, but it’s worth it. Hotteok is a very popular winter-time street food, but it’s quite hard to find.
Well. That was the PLAN. As so often happens, the afternoon was a comedy of errors. The first bus just never came. There are digital boards that show which busses are coming when…and I watched it countdown from 12 minutes away, to 10, to 8…down to 3…and then it went back up to 12…and it had just never come. So I waited the 12 minutes again…and the same thing happened. So I found another bus I could get from that stop…it just left me off further from my destination, so more walking. Okay whatever. I followed the walking directions when I got off the bus…but when I turned off the main road into the little warren of alleyways going every direction, I got…confused. I walked in several circles looking for the place…by Naver maps, it should have been Right THERE. I walked past a line of people outside one restaurant like 4 times. I walked up a little dead end road three times cuz it seemed like the way to go. Nope. UGH. FINALLY I realized that the little messy food stand up against the side of the building with the line of people was it. And it was very much closed. In the pictures online it looked…not BIG, but bigger than THIS…
Sigh.
So I had to just head back to the bus. Fortunately I passed a Starbucks so I stopped in for a grapefruit honey black ice tea and a bagel and got to sit for a bit before I continued on to the bus home…and the trip home went without flaws.
A friend asked how 2025 was going so far. Seems pretty much like 2024.
Thur, Jan 2
Annnnd…I hit the wall on my productive period, ha ha. Maybe cuz I was physically tired from yesterday? But I just couldn’t get up at 7am as I have been for about the past 10 days (except for weekends).
Anyway, I walked over to the main language building to drop off my last (#sadface) visa extension application. Sigh. That makes “the end is near” feel very real. I have 8 more months, give or take a few days, depending on what date immigration sends back to me.
Eight. More. Months.
🙁
Fri, Jan 3
Argh, I couldn’t understand most of what she was saying, cuz…Korean…but essentially the teacher said starting Monday we were going to be in the language building at the top of the hill. The mile walk one. With the hill. The long hill. The HILL. I’m so aggravated! I’m HOPING it’s just while they’re doing construction around our current building – they’ve been regrading and re-doing the parking lot and road…and maybe they just don’t want people walking through while they’re working. HOPEFULLY we can go back there when they’re done. So now next week is the stress of TESTS EVERY DAY and now also the long walk and the hill and the sweating and plus it’s supposed to get colder next week DAMMIT.
Sat, Jan 4
Study Study Study. Fight with TikTok. Go for a quick walk after dark just so I can feel the air.
Sun, Jan 5
Snow! Snow Surprise! It was pretty and I went for a quick walk…til the slushy wet started to reach my feet. I STILL do not have winter shoes/boots.
Well, that was a pretty uneventful week. The next four days are tests and more tests. So stressful. Plus, of course THIS is the week it’s finally getting winter-cold, down into the single digits a couple times – now that I have to trek across campus and up the hill. I don’t recognize the room #, so I also have to have the “is it going to be one of the tiny rooms with the attached student desks that I don’t fit into so I just have to stand there then tell the teacher I don’t fit and she has to go search for a chair for me” stress.
It’s too much.
See ya later luv ya bye.
Sally in St Paul
I feel like this post pretty much perfectly expresses one of the central paradoxes of life. A period of life is stressful and hard and just UGH and yet we cherish the small happy moments and are mentally undone thinking about this time being over. That probably applies to life in general, actually.
Em D
Came here to comment, then read Sally’s comment…which was profound and lovely… and now I can’t even offer a comment that doesn’t sound obtuse after that one. Sigh.
So…enjoyed your post. You make me want pancakes. Lovely comment, Sally. And Jimmy Carter, I think, was a VERY VERY good human.
bettyewp
Because…brain…what…I don’t recall the pancake reference…and now *I* want pancakes!
RIP President Carter.
bettyewp
I think of it as the yin & yang of life. I’m probably adopting the term incorrectly but in my ind it fits. Nothing is all good or all bad. Everything has good AND bad. Hopefully the scales tip on the good side at least a bit…
I’m sad to think of my life and home here ending (what seems very) soon…but I’m also excited for what’s coming next…and HOPING I can actually make it happen!
Thank you, Sally, for such a lovely comment 🙂
Penny
Happy New Year Bettye! Well done you for living and surviving so long in a foreign country. Only those who above done it know the struggles and challenges that actually living in a country brings rather than the ‘travelling’ that is hugely easier. And I had only had to learn to speak better French!!! OMG that language looks so difficult. Anyway, what an adventure you’ve had and all the very best for the next 8 months – enjoy! You will never forget this experience.
bettyewp
Happy New Year to you, too, Penny! Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement. You’re absolutely right—living in a foreign country is a whole different ballgame compared to traveling. It has certainly been full of challenges and obstacles, and I’m pretty proud of myself that I’m still standing!
I bet your French is pretty good! I’m going to be tackling Japanese soon (WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?!?), we’ll see how that goes!