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No Buy July: The Rest of the Story

So, in an effort to rein in my shopping a bit (which, in truth, is a lot of buying but also a lot of returning…and not a lot of keeping),  I did a  “No Buy July,” during which I was to buy No Clothing. I managed to buy nothing right up until the

Week in Review: Week 178

I did, not one but, TWO fun things this week! August already better than July. I was going to say “but let’s start at the beginning of the week,” but in looking back at my photos (which is how I track what I did and when) it looks like I didn’t do

The One Where I Didn’t Go Straight Home

The theme of the summer has been GO STRAIGHT HOME AND STAY THERE. No sunsets, no cocktail beach, no dinners with friends, no photo shoots. If it involves being out of the air conditioning or driving after dark I have been NOT INTERESTED. But tonight she went out. And it was good.

From the Beginning

I thought it might be nice for some of the newer readers who perhaps have not gone all the way back to the beginning, to hear the story of why I’m here doing this…and what exactly a “fashion schlub” is! So, this is a repeat of my very first post, back on

Week in Review: Week 177

It’s the last full week of July. Wow. Isn’t it funny how amazed we are by the passing of time? That’s like THE most basic concept of life…of the UNIVERSE…and we’re constantly amazed by it. “Wow, it’s almost August/the end of summer/back to school/Halloween, etc!” As though there was a possibility that

This & That

Nothing too exciting going on here, folks. I’m wearing this cute top I got through Gwynnie Bee. It’s by Caite, which makes embroidered, boho, Johnny Was-esque tops and dresses. Remember the dress I wore to the beach the day with all the bugs (and the out of focus pictures, but we won’t

The Hunt is On

My mother used to wear what she called muumuus, and today we call a caftan. Not Hawaiian looking things, but similar in length and shapelessness. They were colorful – pink and purple swirls or blue and green paisley. As a child they seemed silky. As an adult looking back, I’m sure they

Week in Review: Week 176

THE ONE WHERE IT WAS HOT. I’m as tired of hearing “it’s so hot!” as I am of hearing, “it’s SUMMER, it’s SUPPOSED to be hot!” And it’s usually ME saying “it’s so hot.” It’s hot. So the main activity has been Staying Cool. I’ve sort of stepped away from phone/internet/social media

Ten Minutes to Happiness

I am not by nature a “happy” person. People who haven’t known me long usually seem surprised to hear this, “No! You’re so Positive!/Upbeat!” I consider myself more of a “perky pessimist.” I’m not all mopey (I don’t think. Not all the time, anyway) and droopy like Eeyore, but..I’m definitely closer to

Week in Review: Week 175

This week was Back to Work after Vacation. That’s always sort of a mental downer, but…it went relatively well. I’d packed my Reward Tote (aka Beach Bag) for an after-work trip to the beach on Monday…but then it got overcast and I just didn’t bother. The bag is still in the car

The Search for the Perfect Summer Dress

Awhile back, Tara Denise did a TJ Maxx try-on haul and I saw a dress I knew would be perfect for summer. It was a loose-fit, button-front, 100% linen sleeveless dress from Tahari. It set me off on a TJ Maxx/Marshall’s wild goose chase all over Long Island! Here’s my criteria for

And Now for Something Completely Different

One of my longtime favorite summer activities is visiting gardens. Often towns will organize a garden tour through several private gardens in the area and you pay one price and go from garden to garden in that town. Once, about 25 years ago (omg I’m old!), my sister and I went to

Week in Review: Week 174 (The Uneventful Vacation)

Well, I’m sorry to say you’d never know I was on vacation last week from looking at my week in review. I really just hid out in the apartment, trying to stay cool. I did some errands that have been on the list for awhile, worked on some future blog posts, GOT

The Red White & Blue

So, originally this post was going to be “3 Ways to Style a White Dress for the 4th of July.” But then I walked outside. And my makeup slid down my face and my head turned into a mini-steam room, soaking my hair before I could even get the camera on the

Week in Review: Week 173

I don’t remember. Ha. Seriously. I remember the night I came home (oh! from “acrylic pour” painting! I remembered!) late and my apartment was all squishy and hot from humidity. I set up my tower fan but there’s not a GOOD spot for it so it blew right in my face all

Lemons and Lemonade

So. I had this cute dress from Gwynnie Bee. Black cotton/poly knit with real embroidery all down the front, v-neck, lil cap sleeves. Very Johnny Was-esque. Very summer boho. I thought, I’ll Do A Shoot On the Little Beach. I’ll pose by the colorful kayaks and sit in my chair and splash

My Summer Bucket List

Come on, you didn’t think I WASN’T going to have one, did you? I think summer is the perfect time to take on some new challenges…and to take advantage of warm weather opportunities. I’m trying to challenge myself a bit but not too much – I do want to have a relaxing

Midsummer’s Eve: Match Made in Seven

Welcome to the monthly edition of Match Made in Seven! We are an international group of fashion bloggers who meet virtually once a month. One of us chooses a theme each month, and that can be anything: a book, music, a color, a movie. And then we all style an outfit based

Week in Review: Week 172

We’re on Week 26 of 2019 – exactly halfway through. How did we get here So Fast? How is June practically GONE?! (Why are the question mark and exclamation point keys so far apart on the keyboard when they’re so often used together?! I think you could actually combine them and call

Hey Doc! You Can’t Just Blame Everything on My Weight!

The backstory (in case you’re new here) So, regular readers will know that I went to the doctor recently. I don’t go to the doctor often. I go when I am incapacitated…or when I am in so much pain that I am incapacitated…so it’s really a measure of last resort for me.


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