Because this woman already has it covered. This is, by far, the most amazing list of resolutions I have ever seen. Even if you’re not interested in the photography goals, just cross them out and leave the others. “Live with empathy,” “work with less,” “Stop wasting. Wasting food, wasting money, wasting products.” These are wonderful aspirations to keep front of mind as you go through your days and your life.

I especially love this one, “Find a way to create more romanticism in my work.” You can substitute the word “life” for “work.” Keep flowers around. Go on leisurely walks with a loved one. Take a picnic lunch to the park. Read by a stream. Wear something pretty. Watch the sun set. Send hand-written notes to friends or great-aunts. Burn candles. Play old music. Fill a table or shelf with framed pictures of family. Wear more jewelry. Put sweet-scented sachets in your lingerie drawer. Try a new perfume. Carry a vintage hankie. Give a gift for no reason. Take a risk for someone you care about. Journal.

The list is endless. I think sometimes we get so caught up in the mundanity of everyday life that it seems impossible to make time for non-essentials. But it’s these lovely gestures and moments that make the work of everyday life worthwhile. So I think this one item might be my overarching resolution for the year.

And when it comes to dressing romantically, I think 0f natural fibers; materials that feel nice to the touch like cashmere, tencel, velvet and thick cushy knits; soft natural tones like white, cream, stone, taupe and blush; loose, drapey fit; lacy or sheer overlays; soft ruffles; florals.

So, if you’re someone who doesn’t like to think of resolutions as More Things to DO, maybe think of the year ahead and the way you want it to feel.  Peaceful? Calm? Joyful? Romantic?

Here’s wishing everyone has just the year they want in 2019.

xoxo Bettye