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Finding Style Inspiration Where You Least Expect It

Marian commented on last week’s Inspired by: Lizzy Hadfield of Shot From the Street post “….I see where you find inspiration – like I don’t think I would have ever thought of emulating the style of 20-something Korean guys. Even Lizzy Hadfield….I realized that if I had seen her on my own,
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Week in Review: Week 269

It was a week. MONDAY This Monday not as delightful as last week. Today was workingasfastasIcould but for every task I completed, three more popped up in its place. I left work with a pile of unfinished work on my desk and I rarely do that. Came home to an equally daunting
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Plus Size Outfit of the Day ~ May 1-7

It’s May. We’re mid-way through spring. Is my warm-weather wardrobe sorted out yet?? Mmm…a little. SATURDAY Casual day at home. Deli breakfast. Worked on blog. DID A TIKTOK LIVE oh the anxiety WHAT TO WEAR WHAT TO WEAR TO A TIKTOK LIVE!?! This seemed TikTok appropriate. The plaid button-down might seem a
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Week in Review: Week 268

If only we could choose a single moment in time to represent our entire lives. ~ ME If you could do that…what would the moment be? MONDAY It was like The Perfect Work Day. Just the right amount of work so it was steady throughout the day but nothing was a panicky
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Plus Size Outfit of the Day ~ April 24-30

The fits just keep coming! Ha ha, I crack myself up. SATURDAY Heading to my favorite Long Island spot, Peconic River Herb Farm. Taking a friend who has never been there. Wasn’t exactly sure how warm it was going to get so I light-layered with the thought that I may be taking
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What I Bought: April

Still trying to fill out the spring wardrobe. In my mind’s eye I’m picturing lots of button-downs, both long and short-sleeved, in fun colors and prints. Unfortunately, what’s in MY mind’s eye is not the same as what’s in BRANDS mind’s eye(s). But I did get some things. WHAT I KEPT Torrid
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Inspired by: Lizzy Hadfield of Shot from the Street

Lizzy Hadfield hardly needs an introduction here, I’ve referred to her so many times over the years. Really, she’s the first one who modeled an androgynous style in a way that really struck a chord with me. I’ve been following her on YouTube, her blog Shot from the Street, and Instagram for
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Week in Review: Week 267

Grateful for a smoother-feeling week. MONDAY What a day! WHAT A DAY! First thing this morning, my FAVORITE BL drama announced the premiere date of their season 2…which has been getting pushed back and pushed back and pushed back to the point that we thought it might not EVER happen. If you
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Plus Size Outfit of the Day ~ April 17-23

Clothes mean nothing until someone lives in them. ~ Marc Jacobs. Clothing has neither identity nor gender. We assign that. SATURDAY Off to a baby shower so in a fancy get-up. This dress feels better than the sister-wife one last week. And I’m gonna have to get over my mental hurdle about
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Spring Wedding Guest Outfits: Plus Size & Otherwise

I have a wedding to go to in May. I so rarely have an occasion like this that I really have nothing appropriate to wear. On my best day I’m not a fancy dresser…so finding something wedding-appropriate is a challenge. I guess I have to suspend my “I want to dress like a boy”
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Week in Review: Week 266

Goal for the Week: Go SOMEWHERE besides “straight home” every day. For once I ACTUALLY got all most of my blog work done over the weekend so I have the luxury of a little more time after work. It’s getting pretty out now, flowering trees are blooming, bulbs are flowering. There are
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Plus Size Outfit of the Day ~ April 10-16

“I say, please dress to please yourself. Listen to your inner muse and take a chance. Wear something that says ‘Here I am!’ today” ~ Iris Apfel SATURDAY Well, THIS was a day! Remember last week when I didn’t do Week in Review cuz really all there was to say was anxietyanxietyanxiety?
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Product Review: Foot Peel Mask

For months I’ve been seeing bloggers touting the miracle that is The Foot Peel Mask and I’ve been like yeah, right. Supposedly this product will take the most hardened, calloused feet and make them baby smooth again. My feet used to be really bad cuz I was a barefoot girl. If I wasn’t
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Torrid Plus Size Spring Try-On Haul

Now that I’ll be back in the office full-time, the search continues for spring/summer work clothes in my new aesthetic. Torrid had a nice selection of plus-size tops for spring, so…let’s do this. The past few years have been very dress-y (not DRESSY, but “dress full”) and…sort of boho-y tops. I definitely
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The Most Worn Clothing Items in My Wardrobe

How to Create a Functional Wardrobe from Just Ten Items It’s Saturday and I’m wearing my cream cashmere v-neck today. I was thinking about how often I wear it. NOTE: There are some things I don’t wear as often as I like because sharing my daily outfits with the internet compels me
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Plus Size Outfit of the Day ~ April 3-9

Me again. Wearing clothes. April is a tough month clothing-wise because of the temps. It’s too cool to wear summer things, and too hot for most winter things. I have about a minute before I get too hot so I never have many clothes for this exact time of year. And I
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The Life-Changing Magic of Normalizing Your Appearance

Are you super critical of how you look in photos? Do you avoid having your picture taken at all costs? You are not alone. However, I’d like you to consider something: it may be more than just thinking you look old, fat, unattractive, etc. It may that you’re just not used to
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Week in Review: Week 265

My last week of work from home + some vacation days + second corona vaccine. Hopes are high that there will be something of actual interest to share this week. Fingers crossed. MONDAY So Fashion Schlub is a Fitness Blog Now Today was The Big Reveal to see if my new training
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Plus Size Outfit of the Day ~ March 29-April 2

The one where I wear a different plus size outfit every day…complete with critique. This is my last week of work-from-home (a moment of silence, please). In looking back over the outfits from the past nine months, my “work” style has definitely gotten more casual. And there are outfits that worked on work-from-home
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What I Bought: March

The One Where I Tried REALLY REALLY Hard to Get Some New Things for Spring BUT. Online shopping is sort of like a savings account for me. I send them $100, they send me things, then I send them back the things and they send me back the $100. EXCEPT FOR (prepare
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